Gender seems to be plaguing me of late, and as such, this week's reading and video were quite relevant to my life. Gender equity and LGBTQIA+ issues are very important to me as I am immersed in the community that they affect. As an out queer student from eighth grade on, I had more than a few unsavory interactions with other students and even teachers at my schools. Being a queer kid is confusing and can make you feel like you are doing something wrong or, at the very least, something out of the norm, just by existing.
Support from school staff, queer inclusion, and effective tolerance education are incredibly important for creating an environment in which all students feel safe and are able to fully engage with their education.
Educators being aware of these issues is paramount to the health and safety of queer students, so reading the guidance for gender-nonconforming youth gave me some joy that there is an effort to communicate that to teachers. It has all of the components it needs including, most notably, the list of relevant definitions. Simply the language to understand and refer to the experience of trans youth is integral to having a healthy relationship with the topic. This is also why books like He, They, She, as Easy as ABC are so important. Giving students the language that they need to be able to express their internal view of themselves, whether related to gender or otherwise, is a large part of what we, as educators, should be striving to do.
Having experienced my own complicated relationship with gender and witnessed the struggles that my transgender peers and friends experience, I feel it is important to underline the importance of access to language.
My partner is transgender, and she has expressed on countless occasions how much she wishes that someone would have told her the words she needed. She didn't have any access to the community or knowledge of genderqueer people beyond the media until her mid twenties and feels that she wasted a lot of time being unable to work through the complicated emotions that are connected to the trans experience. Having seen the regret and upset that this has caused her, I urge all of my fellow educators to try to incorporate queer representation in their classrooms. This does not mean sitting down and giving a lecture on gender, but simply including relevant information in your class. This can be as simple as assigning a reading written by a queer author and mentioning their identity in context to the material, it can mean showing art created by or concerning the queer community, it can even mean simply having the inclusive pride flag on your wall or a sticker on your laptop. Letting students know that you are creating a safe and inclusive space could save their life.
I've already written far more than I intended to when starting off with this post, and I regret that I did not post on time and as such this will likely only be read by myself and Professor Bogad, but I still feel it was good to write.
If anyone would like to discuss this topic with me at length or have any
questions about the community and our experiences, feel free to reach
out. My email is abarnes8472@gmail.com